А если лететь без супруга, нужна же

не нужна:
Your non-EU family member does not need a visa if they have a residence card.

With this residence card (or permanent residence card) they can travel visa-free to all EU countries (including the country of your nationality) as well as to Iceland, Liechtenstein and Norway, also without being accompanied by you. This applies regardless of which EU country issued their residence card and the country they are visiting.
https://europa.eu/youreurope/citizens/travel/entry-exit/non-eu-family/index_en.htm#residence-card-yes

А давно поменяли? Раньше было или вместе или к родственнику.

не знаю, но вот теперь - можно просто так 😊 причём не требуется виза и в родную страну гражданина ЕС

Ахудивительный мир😅